5 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER STOP DOING IN A FRIENDSHIP
Be Honest.
Trust is the most
important element in every relationship and under it comes all dos and don’ts.
Do not lie or fake something with friends.
Trust make a long time to build but unfortunately, can be broken in a
single heartbeat so do not take any chances especially if it is good friend.
Once you start lying, it’s hard to stop. For instance, if you can’t if you
can’t make it to a party because you are broke, don’t lies instead tell the
truth and if you are good friends, they not only will not mind, but will pitch
in for you.
Be Supportive.
Teasing should be for
good cause. For instance, tease your friends about something they are good at.
If they came in first for the test, then make them feel proud of the fact by
calling them. Also recognize what your friends are trying to achieve and
encourage them. No one likes a wet blanket who brings down every one with them.
If you find your friends drifting away from you, the problem may be you.
Be Trust Worthy
Learn to guard your
friend’s secrets. If your friends confide in you, it means they trust in you
and the information should remain between you and not to be shared with the
world.
Do not only talk about your problems, take the time to listen to their as well.
It is easy to declare
about your problems but learn to step back for a moment and hear out what your
friends are going through. It’s a way of
getting involved in their lives by knowing what they have been doing. Also,
remember never to judge them and keep your comments till they ask for it.
Sometimes, they are just looking for a listening ear.
Do not stop doing fun things.
It often gets boring
when you do not find things to do and keep doing the same things over and over
again. So, instead of heading to a restaurant to meet friends, why not invite
them over and prepare meals together. You get to spend time with them and enjoy
yourself in the process.
Finally, we know
friends are very important but do not use them as measure of your worth.
Remember yourself worth. And remember always that FRIENDS are the most
important ingredients in recipe of life.
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